Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Done with the Love Dare Now What???

Wow ....... so I found myself asking mmmmmm what shall I do next it seems easy enough when you are following a great devotion book and it is sorta holding you accountable so to speak before the Lord and now I have finished now what?? Well I stumbled upon a great book I have already read and the title is: "CREATED TO BE HIS HELP MEET" by : Debi Pearl it is a great book she doesn't leave anything out or sugar coat our roles as God Fearing wives and filling the roles the Lord has intended for us to fill as wives. I have decideded to reread this book to kinda fill the spot of reading the book I had been doing. I will share as I am led today I came across the page first thing opened to page 228 and it is titled ABC'S OF BEING A HELP MEET:

A. Admit when you are wrong
B. Be positive
C. cuddle
D. Do it his way
E. Encourage him
F. Fix His breakfast
G. Give back rubs
H. Hug often
I. I love you , should be said many times daily
J. Joke around in a playful manner
K. Know his needs
L. Listen to him
M. Manage your home well
N. Never hold grudges
O. open your eyes in the morning and smile
P. Pray for him
Q. Quit nagging him
R. Reminisce about good ole times
S. Show respect and honor
T. Trust, and earn his trust
U. Understand his need for reverence
V. Vulnerability is a feminine trait; cultivate it
W. Wink at him
X. is for private times(woohoo)
Y. Yearn to please him
Z. Zealously guard him with your love
Awesome isnt it I was reminded of ways I ought to be encourageing him along every step of the way so I am encouraged myself to follow these things on a daily basis tall order to fill however
May God bless us in our marriages and may we just love on our hubby's and encourage them to be their very best.

Until Next Time,
Cindy Bolt


Saved by Grace said...

That was awesome...I have to read that book. I've heard it's a great book. Well I am still on day 7 in the love dare and it's been hard to catch up. Pray for me girlie!! I love ya and thank you soo much for your friendship!!

In His Love,

Kristin said...

Hi there! I ejoyed 'catching up' on the posts I missed while it was my turn to be MIA :) This is a great ABC list - I look forward to hearing more about this book! Hope you all are well! Kristin

Leslie said...

Okay, I know I've been MIA from blog world here, but I actually miss it. I am so getting tired of face book. I love this post!!! I read ALL the ABC's and the Lord totally is convicting. So, I have the Love Dare book and now considering reading the Help meet book too. Thanks for sharing.


BTW, can you email me your addy? Need to pay you...

Anonymous said...

just printed the ABC's of Being a Help Meet, I have the book, but I want to have them up on my memory board! thank you for posting them :) May God bless you with a heavenly marriage, sis <3
Blessings & love,

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